Flowers, romance, nice words and spontaneity – all this was exciting and interesting. That feeling when you are going to date or preparing a surprise for him. But then comes common life and something happens to romance, it goes down. This is a nightmare for many couples. But we are sure a common life is not the end.

Dirty dishes, messy flat and etc. – all this is not the end of romance. Why do people think that all this kitchensink stories kill love and tenderness? This is just a normal phase of life when they start living together. Agreeing to do it lovers should understand that they take some obligations. And this is not the common life which is guilty, it’s people who do it. How no to lose romance among different everyday things and problems. Here are some recommendations:

1. Distribution of obligations

More exactly adequate distribution of obligations. Sharing house obligations according to gender is the way to nowhere. There is a common opinion that a woman is a housekeeper. We want to say you should not take everything by yourself. If you do it than he thinks that it is ok for you. For example if you are tired let him cook supper. And don’t look for any excuses. Let him cook and maybe he will find a new talent in him.

2. Spontaneity

Spontaneity is a help if your relationship starts drowning in everyday life. You can do something unexpected while doing usual things. It can everything you can imagine. But in 5-10 years to do spontaneous things will be much difficult. Or maybe you’ll think that it’s not necessary at all. And maybe you are prepared for it at all? Where should look for inspiration? It can be some very emotional and unexpected event – trainings, meetings even sex-trainings. Seriously when you meet some hot subject, you get more emotions. There is a feeling that there are not so many forbidden subjects left for you. And it influences your life and how spontaneous and flexible you can be.

3. Common interests and development

And typical situation: this weekend you must do this or that. One thing is when you choose only one weekend for some house things. And another when every weekend is like another working day with many activities that are not pleasant and interesting. If today there is an interesting concert or some other event, spend this moment together, have fun. If your common interests fade away with time and only house problems are left, this relationship will die. And nothing will help to resurrect them.